I initially wanted to write about the two recent daily prompts – one on resolutions and the other on the bucket list. I tried to think of a nice little story, but then something happened. Something that made me wonder how, why and what the purpose of setting goals are in the first place.
The purpose toward which an endeavor is directed; an objective.
I was reading through my old blog posts and came across several goals I made in the last few years. But they weren’t all the goals I made in my entire lifetime. I’ve made so many goals that I probably have forgotten half of them.
Worst of all, I’ve forgotten the journeys I took to achieve a particular goal. For instance, I don’t remember how I studied to score in my Primary 6 or Secondary 3 board examinations. I’m going to swing it and say that I grew a little wiser and by the time I was in Secondary 5, where I enjoyed the process of studying – probably why I can still remember how I manage to get through my exams. Or maybe it’s just a memory that’s not so long ago (although I think 9 years ago is a pretty long time!).
I need to start enjoying the road to success. Little successes.
It’s no longer about setting up goals for our life, instead it’s time to add some life into the goals we set.
Take this for example. Sometime in late November 2012, I told a friend how it would be really nice if my blog could get up to 8,000 hits by the end of the year. It was maybe less than a hundred hits shy from the target I had set but I was determined that I could achieve it.
I continued writing, hoping that maybe the few articles I churned out would help me reach my target and well, keep my blog updated, if all else failed.
And then, BAM! I got Freshly Pressed.
How my mind reacted?
The memory of achieving that goal, thanks to you guys, is fresh in my mind. Probably because I really enjoyed it. There was no monetary reward, nor did I get some sort of trophy that I can show off to the world. It’s true, what they say, if you really wish for something with all your heart, the whole world will come together to make sure you succeed.
Here’s a compiled list of the other resolutions I made that turned out to be successful:
- Complete my Degree
- Get a Driver’s License
- Clear out my flea market stock (left-overs)
- Successfully publish three blog posts a month
About 6 others are “in progress” – including traveling and cooking more.
And because I want to start experiencing my goals in life a little bit more, I’ve decided to challenge myself with one more .. I don’t know what you want to call it. Goal? Resolution? I just hope that I can learn and grow as a human being by doing this.
- Book Challenge – I’ve been so inspired by other bloggers that I thought it would be a great idea for me to jump on the bandwagon too. The challenge? To read 20 books by the end of 2013. You can view updates of my challenge on the last widget on your right.
So here’s to setting goals, but importantly enjoying every bit of achieving that goal – from the moment we decide to embark on it, to the hurdles, and if all goes in our favour, to bask in its success.
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